“There’s a Better Man For ME!” Filipina on Dating Foreigners

Filipinas join matchmaking agencies to improve their chances of finding a meaningful connection with foreign men. In this feature interview, Mercy shares the reason why she prefers dating a foreign man.

With a bright smile, Mercy expresses her belief in the Asian matchmaking agency’s legitimacy and the numerous success stories it boasts, making it her chosen avenue for seeking love.

Mercy openly acknowledges her attraction to foreign men, citing their open-mindedness and perceived natural inclination to be good providers. Dispelling any hypocrisy, she also highlights how a better bachelor seems to have emotional intelligence and maturity, qualities she finds particularly appealing.

Most Philippine girls seek alignment of words and actions. Having experienced broken promises, Mercy values a man whose integrity shines through. High emotional intelligence, understanding, and strong communication skills, including active listening, are also paramount for most Filipino women. Recognizing potential cultural differences, Mercy stresses the importance of open-mindedness and embracing those distinctions.

Challenging conventional notions when dating Filipinas, Mercy believes character to be more important than looks. She prefers to be with a man who can provide her peace of mind.

Similarly, age is not a major concern for Mercy, as long as her partner possesses the capacity to love, care, and demonstrates emotional maturity, which she believes is not solely defined by age.

When asked why a foreign man should marry her, Mercy confidently lists her good character, echoing the perceived modesty of Pinays, alongside her sophisticated personality and family-oriented nature. Open to having a family, she envisions having two or three children.

In a heartwarming message to her future husband, who might be watching, Mercy extends an invitation to visit her in Cebu, eager to begin their love story and build their "happy ever after." Her sincere and optimistic outlook offers a glimpse into the hopes and dreams of Cebuanas who seek love beyond borders.