Red Flags in Relationships with Filipino Women
Learn more about how Filipino women consider a red flag in a relationship. | Photo by Don Delfin on Unsplash
What is it about Filipino women that makes foreign men jump through hoops for them? Is it their exotic beauty? Their characteristics? Or how good are they when it comes to relationships?
When Filipino women look for potential partners, they step up their dating game. They do thorough research and make sure they land on their ideal man. This includes your history, personality, habits, and how you treat people around you.
They also make sure to look out for warning signs that may pose a problem later on. These women won’t settle for less and will commit to relationships with anyone deserving of being with them. Of course, terms for similarities and suitability come into play.
So what are the biggest red flags that Filipino women look out for in a relationship? Here are a few examples of the biggest turn offs for these women:
- Lack of communication.
- Inconsistency.
- Lack of trust.
- Controlling and abusive behavior.
- Crippling insecurity.
- A dark or secretive past.
- A massive sense of entitlement.
- Self-centeredness and selfishness.
- Keeping score.
- Excuses for everything.
All relationships that lack communication, not just in the Filipino dating culture, are doomed to fail. A relationship can’t thrive or survive without proper communication. Being able to have a heart-to-heart talk about big issues, as well as open and honest communication about everything, including the little things is vital to any healthy relationship. Effects of lack of communication can lead to escalated conflicts, a negative perspective of your partner, and difficulty setting and reaching goals.
Filipinas are sensitive when it comes to their partners. Inconsistency is a form of emotional abuse. It keeps a relationship from moving forward.
These women don’t want to be left in a perpetual loop of frustration. It’s like getting someone hooked on a drug and then depriving them of that drug. Finish what you started, or be honest and break it off with them. Don’t drag them around, expect a change of emotions -- be direct!
Partners who don’t trust can feel insecure; thus, their relationship will cycle through frequent emotional highs and lows because a distrusting partner spends much of their time scrutinizing their relationship and trying to understand their partner’s motives.
How do you love someone without trust? Trust is the foundation of love. Trust and love go hand in hand and this is something that is earned through action.
A controlling partner typically feels that they have the right to know more than they do. When dating a Filipino woman, this is a deal breaker from the get-go because you are violating her boundaries.
A little space is healthy for all relationships. You can’t force her to give all information, especially information she may not even know. It’s like asking her to give an accurate count of her hair strands -- that’s abuse. We can’t always get what we want.
The core cause of insecurities in a relationship is often a lack of self-love. It’s quite normal to have feelings of self-doubt once in a while.
Some of us use insecurity as a source of strength that guides us through difficult situations while crippling insecurity can sabotage the success in life and can be particularly damaging to an intimate relationship.
A dark past can be a criminal one, or just one that contains trauma, immense challenges, disease, loss of other difficult situations. It can include murky acts that fall between legal and illegal things, as well as immoral or amoral actions. This is a huge deal breaker for Filipino women.
If there’s one common problem these women need to worry about is your sexual history. Yes, it’s the most common problem they face with international dating. They need to know your history, especially for health reasons.
In simple terms, people with a sense of entitlement believe that the world owes them something in exchange for nothing. Filipino women can’t stand partner’s who act as if they owe them something unless they really do.
If you have extreme self-confidence or believe that everything should happen according to what you want, then these women aren’t for you.
A narcissistic person doesn't add to the relationship and help it grow. Filipinas are devoted and invested in doing whatever it takes to make a relationship grow. A relationship is a two-way street.
If you don’t do your part, we don’t have to tell why it’s doomed for failure. A selfish and self-centered person can lead to hurt, disappointment, and resentment. If you aren’t up to the task, you should just date yourself and make peace with it.
For a partner to win, the relationship will lose. This is an unhealthy phenomenon where a relationship doesn’t value give-and-receive.
It’s not so much keeping scores that’s the problem but when partners do keep score, they tend to unfairly focus on the negative. It emits negative energy that shrouds the relationship, depriving it of the brilliance of positivity.
MAN UP! When you make a mistake, accept it and apologize sincerely. Filipino women don’t like projections and placing the blame on them.
They will cut you off right then and there. If you don’t wanna do something -- be direct and say it. They aren’t uneducated. They know that NO means no. Stop twisting everything to your own accord -- that simple.
Importance of Value
If you want to be in a long lasting relationship with these beautiful Filipino women, you've got to lay a foundation. A foundation of love and trust. These two are the building blocks to a healthy relationship.
Women are emotional creatures so have to make sure that their physical, emotional, and spiritual needs are properly met. Treat them right and protect their mental health. As long as you know how to treat a woman right, to find love among them isn’t far away.
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